When Siblings Spark a Storm

Jun 26, 2025

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Summer with Sibling Fights! And what helps...

Hi ,

A story of two sisters and one exhausted mum.

Last summer, I met a mum who was in tears by Week 2.

Her two girls—ages 6 and 9—were constantly clashing.
Both were sensitive, spirited, and stuck in competition mode.

“Everything is a battle. Who gets the blue cup. Who chooses the show. Who sits beside me. It’s like walking on eggshells... all day long.”

Here’s what we worked on:

Remember... you got this. You are doing a good job.

Kindest regards,

Your Child and Adolescent Psychologist,

Lorraine Xx

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