Many of us are emotionally stretched - juggling lots of people's needs!
And when children struggle, we often feel pressure to stay endlessly calm.
But co-regulation isn’t about perfection.
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It’s about presence.
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Children don’t need us to erase our feelings.They need to feel we can stay connected while feelings move through the space.
A regulated adult doesn’t mean a silent one.
It means a ste...
This week - it's okay to notice exhaustion.
For neurodivergent children, exhaustion can happen more easily than for other kids (and for neurodivergent adults too). You are taking in more sensory information, so it makes sense that this would be tiring.Â
It can look like slowing down.Withdrawing.Resisting.Shutting off.
And for parents, it often brings fear:
“What if this doesn’t lift?”“What if w...
Hurray! It's February - hopefully you are seeing a small shift as we leave January behind us.
Small steps :)
...because our nervous systems don’t move straight from overwhelm to engagement.
They move through safety first.
When a child feels unsettled, avoidant, explosive, or withdrawn, it’s rarely because they won’t engage.
It’s because their nervous system still isn’t sure it’s safe enough to ...
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